Guiding Light
For individuals in recovery for compulsive behavior(s).
Program focus
Compulsive behavior recovery
Janeen Olmos Verified by Lit Path
LCPC-LCAC
About
I work with people living in the aftermath of betrayal, whether they were the one hurt, the one who caused the hurt, or somehow both at once. Many of the people who find me are high achieving professionals in law, finance, medicine, and business, used to holding everything together for everyone else, who finally need a space where they don't have to. I also work closely with women rebuilding after a partner's sexual addiction, and with a group I understand in a particular way: women who carried unprocessed trauma for years before it surfaced in an affair they never thought they were capable of. Whoever walks through my door, I'm not interested in judging how they got there. I'm interested in what they need to heal.
My clients often come to me exhausted from managing a crisis, and what they find instead is room to actually feel what happened, to grieve it, and to understand the parts of themselves that led them there. I also address the trauma underneath the crisis itself, the older wounds that often set the stage for what's happening now. I use parts based and inner child work because betrayal rarely lives in just one place. It touches the part of you that trusted, the part that got hurt, and often an old, younger part that was hurting long before this relationship began. I bring my own recovery into the room when it serves my clients, enough for them to know I'm not asking them to do anything I haven't done myself.
What I want for every person I work with is simple to say and hard to reach. I want them to trust their own intuition again. I want them to be able to hold every part of themselves, even the parts they're most ashamed of, with something like love. And I want them to build a life surrounded by people who have actually earned their trust, so that eventually they'd rather be alone than settle for a partner who isn't fully present with them. That's the work, and it starts with them trusting me first, built through honesty, presence, and showing up consistently, session after session.
Specialties
- Abandonment & Neglect
- Abuse
- Adoption
- Adult Children of Alcoholics
- Alcohol
- Anxiety
- Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)
- Borderline Personality Disorder
- Codependency
- Depression
- Divorce
- Drug
- Enmeshment
- Family Conflict
- Food Challenges
- Grief
- Infidelity
- Internet
- Panic Disorder
- Partner Trauma
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
- Self-Harm
- Sex
- Sex/Pornography
- Shopping
- Stress
- Substance Abuse
- Suicidal
- Technology
- Work
Services offered
Individual
In person and online, $150 average fee
If you’re struggling with problematic sexual behavior, pornography use, infidelity, emotional affairs, or toxic relationship patterns, you may feel stuck in cycles of shame, secrecy, and emotional exhaustion. Many clients long for clarity, emotional safety, healthy intimacy, and stable connection but feel trapped by behaviors or relationships they can’t seem to change. You may be seeking freedom from depression, anxiety, isolation, broken trust, and repeated heartbreak, while wanting healthier sexuality, deeper emotional connection, and lasting relational change. I specialize in treating problematic sexual behaviors, pornography use, emotional or sexual infidelity, and painful relationship patterns. My trauma-informed, partner-sensitive approach helps clients develop healthy sexuality, emotional regulation, personal accountability, and secure connection, supporting both behavioral change and deeper emotional healing. Change is possible with the right support. I offer a compassionate, structured, and non-judgmental space to help you understand what’s driving your behavior, strengthen emotional regulation, and build healthier patterns of intimacy and connection. Together, we will work toward clarity, healing, and lasting relational change. We typically meet in person however online/remote sessions are also available.
- Ages
- Young Adult (18-20), Adult (21-64), Senior (65+)
- Approach
- Psychoanalysis and Psychodynamic Therapy, Behavior Therapy, Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), Humanistic Therapy, Integrative and Holistic Therapy, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Narrative, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Humanistic Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy
Group
In person, $65 average fee
If you’re struggling with problematic sexual behavior, pornography use, infidelity, emotional affairs, or toxic relationship patterns, you may feel stuck in cycles of shame, secrecy, and emotional exhaustion. Many clients long for clarity, emotional safety, healthy intimacy, and stable connection but feel trapped by behaviors or relationships they can’t seem to change. You may be seeking freedom from depression, anxiety, isolation, broken trust, and repeated heartbreak, while wanting healthier sexuality, deeper emotional connection, and lasting relational change. I specialize in treating problematic sexual behaviors, pornography use, emotional or sexual infidelity, and painful relationship patterns. My trauma-informed, partner-sensitive approach helps clients develop healthy sexuality, emotional regulation, personal accountability, and secure connection, supporting both behavioral change and deeper emotional healing. Change is possible with the right support. I offer a compassionate, structured, and non-judgmental space to help you understand what’s driving your behavior, strengthen emotional regulation, and build healthier patterns of intimacy and connection. Together, we will work toward clarity, healing, and lasting relational change. We typically meet in person however online/remote sessions are also available.
- Ages
- Young Adult (18-20), Adult (21-64), Senior (65+)
- Approach
- Psychoanalysis and Psychodynamic Therapy, Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Narrative, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Humanistic Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy
Couples
In person and online, $225 average fee
If you and your partner are navigating problematic sexual behavior, pornography use, infidelity, emotional affairs, or toxic relationship patterns, you may feel stuck together in cycles of shame, secrecy, and emotional exhaustion. Many couples long for clarity, emotional safety, healthy intimacy, and stable connection but feel trapped in patterns neither of you seems able to change alone. You may be seeking freedom from broken trust, repeated heartbreak, disconnection, and the anxiety of not knowing if the relationship can heal, while wanting healthier sexuality, deeper emotional connection, and a partnership you can both trust again. I specialize in helping couples work through problematic sexual behaviors, pornography use, emotional or sexual infidelity, and painful relational patterns. My trauma-informed, partner-sensitive approach honors both people's experiences, supporting the hurt partner in processing betrayal and rebuilding safety while helping the partner whose behavior caused harm build accountability, emotional regulation, and genuine change. Together we work toward healthy sexuality, secure connection, and a relationship strong enough to hold the truth. Healing together is possible with the right support. I offer a compassionate, structured, and non-judgmental space where both partners can be heard, understand what has driven the disconnection, and build the emotional regulation and relational skills needed for lasting repair. Together, we will work toward clarity, healing, and a partnership rebuilt on trust. We typically meet in person however online/remote sessions are also available.
- Ages
- Young Adult (18-20), Adult (21-64), Senior (65+)
- Approach
- Psychoanalysis and Psychodynamic Therapy, Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), Humanistic Therapy, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Narrative, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Humanistic Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy
Programs
Men's Group for Problematic Sexual Behavior
In person, $65 fee
If you're struggling with problematic sexual behavior, pornography use, infidelity, or patterns you feel unable to break, you may feel stuck in cycles of shame, secrecy, and emotional exhaustion. Many men in this group long for clarity, emotional safety, healthy intimacy, and stable connection but feel trapped by behaviors they haven't been able to change alone. You may be seeking freedom from isolation, broken trust, and repeated heartbreak, while wanting healthier sexuality, deeper emotional connection, and lasting relational change. This group is for men working through problematic sexual behaviors, pornography use, infidelity, and painful relational patterns. My trauma-informed approach helps members develop healthy sexuality, emotional regulation, personal accountability, and secure connection, while the group itself offers something individual work can't: the experience of being known and challenged by other men who understand this struggle firsthand. Change is possible, and you don't have to do it alone. This group offers a compassionate, structured, and non-judgmental space to understand what's driving your behavior, strengthen emotional regulation, and build healthier patterns of intimacy and connection, alongside other men doing the same work. Together, we will work toward clarity, healing, and lasting relational change. We typically meet in person however online/remote sessions are also available.
- Type
- Group
- Length
- 52 weeks
- Prerequisites
- Interview with Janeen to assess if this group is the right fit for you.
Women's Group for Problematic Sexual Behavior
In person and online, $65 fee
If you're struggling with problematic sexual behavior, sex and love addiction, infidelity, or patterns you feel unable to break, you may feel stuck in cycles of shame, secrecy, and emotional exhaustion. Many women in this group long for clarity, emotional safety, healthy intimacy, and stable connection but feel trapped by behaviors they haven't been able to change alone. You may be seeking freedom from isolation, broken trust, and repeated heartbreak, while wanting healthier sexuality, deeper emotional connection, and lasting relational change. This group is for women working through sex and love addiction, problematic sexual behaviors, infidelity, and painful relational patterns. My trauma-informed approach helps members develop healthy sexuality, emotional regulation, personal accountability, and secure connection, while the group itself offers something individual work can't: the experience of being known and challenged by other women who understand this struggle firsthand. Change is possible, and you don't have to do it alone. This group offers a compassionate, structured, and non-judgmental space to understand what's driving your behavior, strengthen emotional regulation, and build healthier patterns of intimacy and connection, alongside other women doing the same work. Together, we will work toward clarity, healing, and lasting relational change. We typically meet online/remote however in person sessions are also available.
- Type
- Group
- Length
- 52 weeks
- Prerequisites
- Interview with Janeen to assess if this group is the right fit for you.
Education and certification
- Masters in Mental Health & Addiction CounselingMidAmerica Nazarene University, 2013
- Sex Addiction Therapy ProviderMidAmerica Nazarene University, 2014
- Certified Couples Betrayal Recovery TherapistIITAP International Institute for Trauma & Addiction Professionals, 2026
- Licensed Clinical Addiction CounselorKansas Board of Sciences Regulatory Board and Missouri Counselors Board, Adult Children of Alcoholics, 2017
- Licensed Clinical Addiction CounselorKansas Board of Sciences Regulatory Board and Missouri Counselors Board, Alcohol, 2017
- Licensed Clinical Addiction CounselorKansas Board of Sciences Regulatory Board and Missouri Counselors Board, Drug, 2017
- Licensed Clinical Addiction CounselorKansas Board of Sciences Regulatory Board and Missouri Counselors Board, Food Challenges, 2017
- Licensed Clinical Addiction CounselorKansas Board of Sciences Regulatory Board and Missouri Counselors Board, Internet, 2017
- Certified Couples Betrayal Recovery Therapist CandidateIITAP International Institute for Trauma & Addiction Professionals, Partner Trauma, 2026
- Sex Addiction Therapy ProviderMidAmerica Nazarene University, Sex, 2014
- Sex Addiction Therapy ProviderMidAmerica Nazarene University, Sex/Pornography, 2014
- Licensed Clinical Addiction CounselorKansas Board of Sciences Regulatory Board and Missouri Counselors Board, Shopping, 2017
- Licensed Clinical Addiction CounselorKansas Board of Sciences Regulatory Board and Missouri Counselors Board, Technology, 2017
- Licensed Clinical Addiction CounselorKansas Board of Sciences Regulatory Board and Missouri Counselors Board, Work, 2017
Fees and payment
- Accepts
- Credit Card, Cash, Check, FSA / HSA, Debit Card
- Insurance
- Insurance Not Accepted
Listing last updated August 2, 2026. Back to the directory
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Resilient Travelers
Partners and spouses carrying the impact of someone else's compulsive behavior.
Program focus
Betrayal trauma and partner support
Growing Hope
Anyone seeking general mental health therapy for needs unrelated to compulsive behavior.
Program focus
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